WHERE IS WOMEN ?

Hey Friends!

Today I am here to share with you a discourse by Great master OSHO from his book " Naari aur Kranti" (Naari means Woman and Kranti means the revolution).

He said:

If I think of speaking in this regard, then this idea comes first. Where is the woman? A woman has no existence. Mother exists, sister exists, daughter exists, wife exists. But the woman has no existence anywhere. The existence of a woman has related to man. Man's relation is her existence. She has no soul of her own. This is very surprising, but it is a bitter truth that the existence of a woman is in the same ratio and in the same proportion in which she belongs to the man. If not related to the man, then such a woman has no existence. And if the existence of women is not there, then what about revolution?

      Therefore it is important to understand the first thing. That woman has not been able to establish her existence till now. Her existence is absorbed in the existence of man. Man has a part in her existence. ....

      Firstly, the woman has no existence. And if she has to declare her existence, she should say that I am who I am - not someone's wife; It is secondary to have a wife. I am I — I am not the mother of anyone, it is divine to be a mother. To be someone's sister, daughter.. but this is not her existence. This is one of the infinite connections of my existence. It is a relationship, it is not me. It should be clear in every girl of the coming generation, every woman - I also have my own existence.

      The second thing I want to say is that if women want to find their soul, they should clearly understand that it is better to live without love without marriage, but to marry without love is a sin, a crime….

      I want to say to the children of the coming generations, to the future women,  to all the new forms of women who come will have to be very clear from the mind that if there is love, then behind is marriage; If there is no love, there is no marriage. If there is no love then there is no need for marriage. Love will come, you will have to wait.

      If women have a clear idea that the love of their personality is the real voice, then the mother should become an ally, a mere and companion in developing the full potential for love in the personality of the children to come. And it should be noted that marriage comes only after love, not before love. The day the marriage comes behind the love, the woman will get her soul. She can get a soul from love only. This is the first step to their identity.

      If this revolution is not present, then the gift that a woman should give to the civilization of man, she will not be able to give. And the happiness, peace, and joy that should be in a woman's life are not available to her. And the woman's enjoyment is very meaningful because she is the center of the house. If the center of the house is depressed, humbled, exhausted, defeated, then the whole house, the whole family, which revolves around its periphery, will all become oppressed, depressed and defeated.

      A laughing, smiling woman in the house., in whose footsteps is the song of love, whose walk is tinkling, whose heart is joy, who is having a joy to live, whose breath is full of love, A woman in the center of the house. A new fragrance, new music will born in that house. And there is no question of a house. It is a question of every household. If it is possible in every house, then a society will be born - one that is calm, blissful and cheerful.

      This great revolution, that this man's society approaches God, women can be very supportive in different ways. I said these few sutras of that revolution. A woman has to declare her soul and her existence. A woman has to refuse to be the property of man. Women have to declare the laws made by men as a class and she has to create what legislation she stands for. A woman has to accept the whole system of life as immoral except for love. Love is the basic mantra of morality. If this is possible then a new woman is born.

Osho (Woman and Revolution)